Have you experienced falling in love with someone who is in a relationship?


I’ve been friends with this girl for three and a half years. We go out of town, eat together during break and lunch time, do homework and projects, food trip every night, go home together. There was a time other people thought we were a couple. But there was no label. I fell in love with her, but I did not make any move because, like any other guy, I was afraid of rejection.


Until one day, I learned she is in a relationship. Still, I couldn’t help falling in love.


I keep on waiting, but I might wait for nothing. Still, I’ll follow my heart and if it still makes me happy, I'll continue to do it.


There is a line in a song that goes, “Shall I stay? Would it be a sin? If I can’t help falling in love with you?”


I’m still waiting for her. Maybe she’s the only one for me.


You might agree with the idea that the biggest psychological problem is love. For one, in love, there are many questions yet answers are not always available. Ryan Jansen Tadeja





Ryan Jansen Tadeja is a senior BS Education – General Education student of the University of Baguio.



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